LEVEL UP and BE HAPPY
Being Satisfied with whatever level you are at!
and you could see that each kid felt like that had accomplished something good! I thought that was just an amazing message to send to their kids, team mates and friends.
I quickly started to think about my running buddies and fellow athletes. Thinking about conversations and all the goals we set and commitments we make to run better, faster and longer. We change our shoes, diets and even outfits just to make a difference in what we WANT to happen.
How do we get from this. . .
"I have this goal and I am going to meet it! That's what will make me happy!" to this. . .
. . ."Well, yeah, I did good but if I just would have added THIS to my workout, I could have done that. My meal plans were not quite where they should have been so I performed well, but it could have been SO MUCH better!" Really?
Don't get me wrong, I am guilty of this as well. Last year, I ran my annual AFC 1/2 marathon and set a goal to run 1:39. I trained hard, did everything I needed to do to meet that goal. Well, I finished the race running a 1:41. I beat myself up FOR WEEKS! I reviewed my training, what I ate and even what I was wearing. Why was I not satisfied with my time? I am not a "true" long distance runner, I was not trying to qualify for anything and there was not a million dollar purse at the end of the race for those who ran a 1:39. . .heck not even for the first place runner! I had completely crushed my joy of running weeks after the event.
As children, unfortunately, we are conditioned that way. Whether you have a supporting family or not, levels are established and you just have to get there. But what happens from there? Heck, if I can do that. . .just think what would happen if I could do this?
There is nothing wrong with wanting to improve yourself but you need to find happiness at each level. Learn from your mistake, be happy with your accomplishments (live in it) and then move forward with a stronger understanding. You have to come to the conclusion that if you accomplish your goals or even if you don't, you are still happy with yourself for even trying and it doesn't matter what others think of you. If you fall down, know that you can get back up. If you stay in the same place, you are fine with that and there is no room to judge yourself or to allow others to!
As a runner/athlete, let's look at 3 general levels we tend to fall into. Learning to be satisfied with each level seems to be easier said than done. But once you get that running bug, your whole mindset changes and you want more.
Next there is the intermediate runner and these semi-crazy runners have set their goals. Their goals now determine their workout regime and commitment to the sport. You know who you are. The right shoes are now into play and you have established "a look" for your next race. Man, I hate talking about myself but if you've been in the running game for quite some time, you know what I am talking about. Sometimes this is the worse level you can be at because you don't want to look or act like a beginner and you definitely want a taste of being an advanced runner from time to time. Look, unless your goal is to get to the Olympics. . .relax! Why did you get into running in the first place? How more enriched would your life be if you did run a 1:39 and not a 1:41? Would the "Runner's Lottery Ticket People" be ringing your door with a check in hand the next day? Uh. . .no! So, enjoy your accomplishment and relish in the fact that you can easily run 3 miles without stopping. LOL! There are a LOT of people who can NOT say that and wish that they could.
I know I type a lot but I love sharing learning points and AHA moments with others can benefit. Oh, how did I get over my not running a 1:39 goal? I thought to myself,
"how many 40 year olds can say that they ran a 1:41 at the 2011 AFC 1/2 marathon?"
Well out of 8000s runners, about 70 of us can and 20% of those runners were women!. . .Yeah, I broke it down, I am apart of that elite crew and that makes me happy!
Happy and Satisfied Running!